Forced marriage is an international issue, at least partly
because some young women are taken to their family’s home country and their
passports taken away to force them into marriage; they are also put under
physical and emotional pressure to consent to a family’s wishes. This is different
from an arranged marriage, in which both man and woman consent, but the family (usually
the parents) play a big part in bringing the couple together. My experience is that increasingly parents are anxious about accepting the responsibility for this in Western societies, even where the family's historic culture has supported arranged marriage. However, it's still widespread among British Asian communities, and supported by many in both the current marrying generation and among many of their parents.
In the UK, a useful House of Commons Library research briefing
covers the current government consultation on forced marriage. As always with Library
briefings, it also covers a wide
range of official and non-official documentation. If you followed back all the sources, you would be very well-informed
indeed.
The English government is thinking about criminalising (as the
Scottish Parliament has) forced marriage – at the moment it is a civil offence,
that is an offence against the victim, who has to take action in the courts. The
recent The Forced Marriage (Civil Protection) Act 2007 allows the courts to intervene
with various protective orders. There are international processes for retrieving
people from families who have in effect kidnapped them.
The paper makes the point that consent (informed and
unpressurised consent) is required for marriage in all major world religions. However,
some of the political and professional anxiety in pursuing these cases may well
come from a feeling that we should not interfere in cultural matters. But it’s
like violence towards children or women, it may be a commonplace in some
cultures, but it’s an unacceptable trespass on the victim’s human rights and
should not be condoned.
However, it's a pity that in his speeches the Prime Minister has discussed it alongside immigration issues. Neither forced marriage (illegal) nor arranged marriage (legal) ought to be a factor on thinking about our minority ethnic groups and their cultural preferences.